{"id":649,"date":"2011-01-02T22:57:28","date_gmt":"2011-01-03T03:57:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/?p=649"},"modified":"2019-05-06T13:07:55","modified_gmt":"2019-05-06T18:07:55","slug":"get-over-it-why-negative-comments-can-actually-be-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/?p=649","title":{"rendered":"Get over it&#8230; why negative comments can actually be good"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Somebody might say something really bad about us, and we can&#8217;t have that.&#8221;  That&#8217;s what he said to me.  I hear this alot.  You see, many businesses and organizations are paralyzed by fear that if they get involved in social media that they won&#8217;t be able to control the conversation.  So they choose not to participate in the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>I can understand the fear.  I don&#8217;t do things in my own life because I either don&#8217;t understand how something works, or I may have a fear of failure.  I think we can all relate to that.<\/p>\n<p>So I want to offer my advice as we kick off the new year.  When it comes to social media in general, it&#8217;s a two-way street.  There are no two ways about it.  It&#8217;s about a conversation.  If you want to take advantage of what social media can offer you, then you need to take these 3 little words of advice:<\/p>\n<p>Get over it.<\/p>\n<p>People are going to say negative things about you because nobody is perfect 100% of the time.  So just expect it.  And keep this in mind&#8230;you can&#8217;t control what your customers say about you to their friends can you?  And you know what?  They are talking about you at the soccer game, in Wal-Mart, and in Sunday School.  But with social media you have a distinct advantage&#8230;since it happens online then you have the opportunity to know about it and respond.  That is huge.  You like having a conversation with your customers, right?   You care what they say and think, right?  Yeah, I thought so.<\/p>\n<p>So make a new year&#8217;s resolution to grow some thick skin and just get over it.  You&#8217;ll thank me.<\/p>\n<p><iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Fsteveholt.com%2Fhome%2F2011%2F01%2F02%2Fget-over-it-why-negative-comments-can-actually-be-good%2F&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light&amp;height=80\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height:80px;\" allowTransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Somebody might say something really bad about us, and we can&#8217;t have that.&#8221; That&#8217;s what he said to me. I hear this alot. You see, many businesses and organizations are paralyzed by fear that if they get involved in social media that they won&#8217;t be able to control the conversation. So they choose not to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[44,6],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/649"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=649"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/649\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3023,"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/649\/revisions\/3023"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/steveholt.com\/home\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}